方与圆的人生大道

1、方圆之道

“方”与“圆”是中国传统文化中两个相对应的具有深刻内涵的意象;方是刚,圆是柔;方是原则,圆是机变;方是做人之本,圆是处世之道。方与圆相结合,刚柔并济,阴阳相生,变换无穷,可以不变应万变,亦可以万变应不变,其中包含了做人的智慧精髓,浓缩了处事的技巧精华,自古以来被视为人生之大道,做人之大智,做事智大端。在做人做事中,如果能做到方外有圆,园内有方,能方能圆,亦方亦圆,方圆合一;则必能进退自如,游刃有余,从容周旋,化危机于无形,赢得广阔的生存空间。

方与圆这一人生大智慧,在现实生活的做人做事中,会以不同的形式表现出来,对其在为人处世、生存竞争、人际交往、求人办事、领导管理、商场经营等方面的都有实际的大用。

一代才子郑板桥在两个世纪前一句“难得糊涂”的感叹,引起多少世人的共鸣。诚然,“难得糊涂”几个字蕴含多少前人的沧桑与智慧。糊涂不是昏庸,而是为人处世的一种策略,是毫不露骨的聪明,是一种超越精明的精明。在生活中,真正的聪明人都是懂得糊涂的。他们遇到任何事绝不自作聪明,大发议论,相反他们总是做出一副什么都不知道、什么都不清楚的样子,躲躲闪闪装糊涂。这样的人心知肚明,但是什么人也不会得罪。他们在生活中能够左右逢源,活的逍遥自在。

2、吃亏是福

懂得吃亏是中华几千年生存历史的经验总结,它集儒释道的哲学内涵于一身,包含了人生沉浮的智慧与韬略。吃亏是指人的物质利益的丢失与被掠夺,而“吃亏是福”则是中国历代哲人深刻的人生感悟。吃亏看似失去了眼前的小利,是表面的隐忍与退却,而实际却为你日后获得更大的利益埋下了伏笔。如果你对眼前的小亏斤斤计较,寸土不让,终究会肚子品尝那得不偿失的苦果。懂得了“吃亏是福”的人生哲理,会使你历练出平和、容忍、谦逊的修养与情操,拥有更加持久永恒的生命力与竞争力,在人生阶梯上一路攀升。

3、低调是境界

低调是一种境界,鹰立如睡,虎行似病;低调是一种策略,韬光养晦,深藏不露;低调是一种心态,谦虚内敛,豁达平和;低调是一种哲学,地低成海,人低成王;低调是一种智慧,智者必学,强者必用。低调既是普通人的处世准则,又是成功者的为人训诫。有品位的人不一定低调,有内涵的人不一定低调,成熟的人也不一定掉,但反过来讲,低调的人会更有品味,更有内涵,也更成熟。总之,只有懂得低调做人的人,才能够在社会这个大舞台上扮演好每一个角色,才能够在人生这段旅途中走好每一段路。

4、低头是锋芒不漏

低头,才能出头。历史上、现实生活中常常有这样一些人,他们很有能力,也不乏干劲,但为人傲气十足,处处把头抬得很高,不屑于屈就现实生活中有意或无意设置的一系诶低矮“门槛”,这些人最终只能处处碰壁,被撞得头破血流,不但成就不了任何事业,甚至连容身之所都没有。相反,那些资历平平但懂得低头的人,小则安身立命,一生平顺,大则能赢得人心,出人头地,成就一番伟业。其实,低头不是自卑,更不是怯懦;它是一种能力,是一种处世的姿态,是一种思考问题的角度,是一种与人相处的方式,是一种生存策略,更是人生的大智慧,现在的低头,是为了将来更好的出头。

5、做好选择,该放则放

学会选择,懂得放弃。人一生中,需要做出太多选择,无论是在爱情、婚姻上,还是在工作、事业上,不同的选择导致命运的迥异。错误的选择会让人走尽弯路,辛苦一生却一无所获,或走入歧途,酿成人生悲剧;量力而行,睿智选择,才会让人一帆风顺,成就完美人生。同样,人一生中需要放弃太多,放弃不能承受之重,放弃心灵桎梏,该放弃时就要放弃,放弃是一种超越,一种生存智慧。不懂放弃常使人背负沉重压力,长期被痛苦困扰;懂得放弃让你避免许多挫折,生活更顺利,只有在纷繁复杂的社会现实中保持清醒的头脑,更直观、更理性的认知自己,认知社会,在漫长的人生旅途中正确选择,适时放弃,走好人生每一步棋,才能把握好自己的命运,早日实现成功。

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