糊涂与聪明只有一线之隔

聪明与糊涂是相对的,很多时候,由聪明转入糊涂也仅仅是在一线之间,只要懂得适时转变自己的观念,装一下糊涂又有何妨?

似乎人人都爱精明、不喜欢糊涂,然而有这“康熙秀才、雍正举人、乾隆进士” 之称的郑板桥却又一句著名的箴言“难得糊涂”。在他看来,“聪明难,糊涂尤难,由聪明转入糊涂更难”。聪明人会把别人的缺点和过失看得很清楚,糊涂的人却看不到别人的缺点和过失,由聪明转成糊涂的人,即使看到别人的缺点和过失,却不把别人的缺点和过失放在心上。但由聪明转成糊涂却是需要一定的智慧。

在许多事情上,我们不是傻瓜笨蛋,不是瞎子聋子,但是不去计较,装作看不到、听不到,正是从聪明转为糊涂,的确就是郑板桥讲的“难得糊涂”了。哪些为人父母、师长、长官的人更应该体会“难得糊涂”的幸福和智慧。具体说来,一个人要想装傻,装糊涂,可以从以下几方面做起:

第一点

忽略一个人的缺点,要善于找出一个人的优点,把这个人安排在适合的位置上;

第二点

要大度为怀,对于别人的错误,要抱有一种宽容和容忍的态度;

第三点

要抓大放小,掌握大原则,而不是拘泥于小节;

第四点

要重里轻表,忽略一些表面的功夫和动作;

第五点

要任人唯才,不要以为“官大学问一定也大”;

第六点

要平易近人,放下架子,做一个容易让人接近的人

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